Warmth Across Borders: Caregiving Through the Eyes of Borrowed Grandpa

Meeting 230 2026.11.24 (Tue) Regular meeting

Warmth Across Borders: Caregiving Through the Eyes of Borrowed Grandpa

莉莉 Ririn Arumsari Home-care worker from Java, Indonesia; author of Borrowed Grandpa

Coming from Java, Indonesia, with a dream kindled by the Taiwanese drama Meteor Garden, Lily spent nearly a decade supporting Taiwanese families as a professional carer — speaking fluent Mandarin and Taiwanese Hokkien — while writing down her migrant life on a tiny phone screen. Her debut novel, Borrowed Grandpa, captures the loneliness of old age and the understanding and affection that slowly grow between carer and cared-for.

Topics we'll explore

  • How a decade of migrant life in Taiwan became material for writing
  • Language, song and the quiet work of caregiving beside an isolated elder
  • From an employment contract to borrowed family: bonds that form without bloodlines
  • Loneliness, pressure and the professional needs of caregivers